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Tuesday, January 23, 2024

Imaginations Running Wild

This morning Lily and Sawyer engulfed themselves in a world of pretend. I overheard Lily empty out the backpack of stuff they had packed for their "hike" and Lily giggled, "Sawyer...there's a tu-tu in here..." she scrunched her nose and laughed once more, "Why did you bring a tu-tu?" Sawyer answered, "In case we have to go to a dance!"

Then they went to the beach with their baby dolls and then to the dancing place and then they found a face mask and played dentist. They each took turns laying on the floor while the "dentist" looked inside their mouth with a flash light. When Sawyer found this flower headband and decided to use it as a head lamp, I cracked up laughing at how legit it looked. 


Cooper napped for a few solid hours which allowed me to get through piles and piles of dishes. I haven't seen my island counter tops in a while. I ran the dishwasher and threw dinner in the crock pot. In the afternoon he napped again in his sunlit bedroom while I folded a few loads of laundry and tidied the living room. The house is finally falling into routine again! I even dared to pull out some berries and juice from the freezer to do some jam and jelly tomorrow. Wish me luck!

Monday, January 22, 2024

Slowing Down

This morning we got to spend some time snuggling by the fire. We slept in a little bit since there's no seminary this week due to the high school exam schedule. Our morning study was a little bit later and our morning a little bit less rushed. 

Once I got the children off to school I spent most of my time catching up on dishes, dishes, dishes. I also managed a quick trip to the grocery store with Cooper while my parents watched the other two littles. It felt good to get out and back into routine again.

After school I met Joe and a friend of his and drove them to Caroline for their basketball game. Their team only scored three baskets and one of those was from Joe! We ended up bringing his friend back with us to help his mom out. We picked up Hyrum from practice and made our way home for dinner. Thankfully I had planned ahead and just needed to warm the enchiladas in the oven. 

When dinner was finished we all loaded up again to drive into town and drop Joe's friend to his mom and pick up Camilla from basketball practice. Cooper was such a champ with all of the extra driving and running today.

We spent the evening beside the fire once more. Camilla hung out on the couch doing homework on my laptop and Hyrum cozied up in one of the grey chairs with his nose in a book again. He's read so many books already this year (just like his mamma). Things are slowing down and the days don't feel quite so packed. A lot of things got put on hold as we waited on babe's arrival and then adjusted to life as a family of ten. I am looking forward to finding another book for myself, making some jam and jellies and tidying up the storage room (which is a huge disaster right now). My eyes are so tired I almost have to hold them open with my fingers, but my heart is so full. I love spending time with our big kids having late night conversations. We are truly blessed!

Sunday, January 21, 2024

Cooper's Gramma Blanket

My talented Mamma has made blankets for each of her new grandbabies and left this hanging on the crib for Cooper the other day. It was quite fitting that she chose stars as I literally wished upon a shooting star for this babe one Summer's night. We waited longer than usual for this little man and are so glad he's blessed our family. The quilt turned out so beautifully and it will be something that we will cherish forever!






 

Saturday, January 20, 2024

A Full Weekend

Today involved some serious coordinating and team work to make it to everything we had to do. Daddy took the big boys to Cochrane for hockey and Lily, Coop and I watched basketball all day long. Sawyer opted to stay home with Gramma for most of the day. 


They had a team drop out of the tournament, so the girls ended up playing in both tiers which meant they got to play six games this weekend instead of three. They played hard despite how tired they were! 


Cooper pretty well slept through everything while Lily played in the stands and entertained the fans. Lily loves to yell and knows most of the girls names on the team, so we would hear a lot of "GO Webels!" and "Go Camilla! Go Janae!"


Daddy ended up making it back to town early evening, and stopped by the school for her last game of the day. 

Friday, January 19, 2024

Cooper: One Week

This morning we woke to the most stunning sunrise! My favorite part about this new addition is the morning views and big windows. 

Watching the sun rise and fall each day is something that fills my soul.

We spent the majority of our afternoon at the high school watching Camilla at her Basketball tournament! One of the Mom's made this sweet hat for Cooper in Rebels colors so that we could cheer them on in style at their home tournament this weekend.



Grampa, Lily, Cooper and I enjoyed watching her team this afternoon!

 
After dinner and as I was watching Hyrum so tenderly hold his baby brother, I realized that Cooper is a whole week old already! He's settled in nicely and brought us so much joy!

Thursday, January 18, 2024

Naptime

We are feeling pretty tired after our big day yesterday!
Today will be two hours of piano lessons after school while we wait in the van and run errands.
I am so glad this babe takes a soother!


 

Wednesday, January 17, 2024

Baby's First Outing

Our sweet Cooper is growing and changing already! This morning he seemed so much more content when he woke.

 Lily helped me change his bum and then asked if she could snuggle him for a bit. 

She always feels like such a big girl and requests that I don't help her. 
She adores him.

It's not often Sawyer asks to snuggle him as he's often busy playing, but when he does, he is so tender about it. Cooper is pretty lucky to have these two at home during the day!


Today was our first big afternoon away from home, so we took some extra time feeding and making sure we had everything together before leaving the house. 



After a quiet day filled with snuggles, we headed in to the middle school to watch Hyrum's basketball game. This is his second year playing and he's improved a lot since last year. Camilla had piano lessons and walked over to the middle school when she had finished to meet up with us and cheer her brother on. It was fun to sit together and visit while the little boys played out at the park. When Cooper started getting fussy, I pulled him out of his seat and fed him. His little cries echoed through the gym causing heads to turn. It's not often a baby attends a middle school basketball game.


After Hyrum's game we visited with friends for a few minutes and then picked up a few pizzas to eat in the van. We slowly made our way over to the high school to watch Camilla's basketball game against Sylvan. 

The girls played their hearts out and made some good shots. I love watching our number 4 zig and zag all over the court. She is quite passionate about this sport and it shows! We finally made it home close to 8pm, tired and ready for bed!

Tuesday, January 16, 2024

Grace

This morning we woke to a gentle snowfall. I watched it come down as Cooper and I snuggled on the couch and the morning twilight filled the room. Before long I could hear the children stirring. One came up for a shower before our family study and the rest trickled into the living room slowly rubbing sleep from their eyes. We enjoyed the warmth of the fire as we listened to Daddy teach and read scripture.


The sling has become my new best friend as it keeps Cooper happy and safe while also allowing me to tend to the other children. It was an answer to prayer when the thought popped into my mind to bring it in from the van last night. This is how I am going to be able to manage things at home and meet everyone's needs for the next little while.


I've been through this transition enough times to recognize the need for grace. In this season there will simply be things that do not get done or accomplished and that's ok. My to-do list shrinks significantly and feed and snuggle a newborn are prioritized right near the top. Life will be messy and full of spontaneity for the next little while and I'm here for it all!


The late afternoon brought a visit from my sweet midwife to weigh and check on Cooper. He has only lost a few ounces (which is quite normal) and is looking healthy and well, so we will keep doing what we're doing!

Monday, January 15, 2024

Another Snow Day

Today we thought we would be juggling a typical Monday morning, but since the weather still hasn't warmed up, the busses were cancelled yet again and everyone is home from school. After waiting so long for babe to come, I'm beginning to think that it was a huge blessing that Cooper came when he did. Due to the cold we haven't had to worry about the morning rush to get ready for Seminary or catch the bus. 


We enjoyed a slow morning warming by the fire, sipping hot chocolate and eating French Toast made by Joe! I was grateful for one more morning of grace before we resume our regular schedules tomorrow! Fin and Ollie helped Sawyer and Lily put peanut butter and syrup on their French Toast. Afterward everyone did a pretty good job cleaning up after themselves. I was so tired and only had a few hours of sleep. My patience began to run thin as Lily repeatedly spun her bar stool bugging Sawyer to no end.



The kids spent a lot of their afternoon playing outside on the sledding hill (which is pure ice). Their jump froze over and they had a lot of fun sailing over it! I discovered that I need to reduce my to-do list to "feed the baby" because it looks like that might be all that I get done for the next month or so. Cooper is constantly wanting to be either fed or held onto and will only let me put him down for a few minutes at a time. Of course it's normal newborn behavior, it's just been a while and it's hard to adjust to someone needing you 24/7 again. I am so thankful to have the big kids home for one more day. They have each offered to hold and help at various points today. 


Hyrum held him while I tidied Lily's room and gathered laundry. He also held him in the evening when I cut Fins hair. Joe asked for him a few times as well, and Camilla is great at keeping him asleep for extended periods of time, providing a nice reprieve. 


Cooper pooped shortly before bed, so I decided a first bath was in order. I hoped it would calm him down and make him more comfortable for bedtime. Snowflakes were falling heavily as we tucked in for the night and my mind began thinking over the day. I began doubting my abilities and wondering how I will survive the basketball games, piano lessons, and appointments of the upcoming week. I had Hyrum bring in my sling from the van when he went to check eggs and he sweetly placed it next to the fire to warm up for morning. I'm hoping that being able to hold and comfort Cooper hands-free will help me accomplish everything I need to do ("feed and snuggle the baby" being the most important of course). I'm hoping for some rest tonight so that I can be a more patient mommy tomorrow as I send my kids off to school. I'm grateful for this "extended break" due to the cold weather and the busses being unable to run. It was nice to be all together as we adjusted to life as a family of ten. It's slightly more difficult with the spread in ages now, but I'm hoping we will find a groove that works!


 

Sunday, January 14, 2024

The Sabbath

This morning we were all able to sleep in as early morning meetings were cancelled due to extreme cold. I made the kids breakfast while Camilla kept Cooper happy. When I ran the hot water I noticed it wasn't working again so Mike went out to knock the ice out of the exhaust pipes so the hot water heater could vent again (some safety feature). After waiting for the tank to warm up, showers had to be shorter than usual. 


Joseph was looking forward to being able to pass the sacrament with Hyrum this morning.


The big kids helped the tiny kids get dressed and ready and then Mike went out to warm up the van. Despite being plugged in, Big Red did not want to start. I glanced out the window to see him transferring car seats to the Pathfinder which would barely squish everyone in, leaving a few to catch a ride in with Gramma and Grampa. While we waited on the vehicle to warm up, I quickly snapped a few photos of all EIGHT of the children together in their Sunday best!

Once Daddy came in to warm up, we were able to take a quick picture of all of these handsome guys in their navy suits.

And my new and very grown up looking Deacon!


Because of the frigid, terrible weather, Cooper & I stayed home and Zoomed in to church. I was able to rest, and stare at these sweet little man all morning long. 

Everyone came home to some warm chicken noodle soup and then we spent a quiet afternoon visiting by the fire. Daddy was able to get some baby snuggles in while we visited.

 There is never a shortage of kiddos willing to hold and love on Cooper while I need hands free to make a meal, or bath a toddler or tuck someone in. Having big kids who love babies  is such a blessing. It was a wonderful Sunday!