There's a few things I wish I'd known about when I had my older kids, but one of the biggest things I wish I'd known was how fabulous baby wearing was! I love being able to nurse hands-free when we are out and about. I love that I can still chase after my toddlers while keeping my baby close. I had no idea about woven wraps and how awesome they could be. It wasn't until Finley that I ever invested in a good buckle carrier that got used daily almost out of necessity. We loved our Ergo and I used it to piggy back Finley everywhere until my pregnant belly got too big to use it. I started researching woven wraps and asked my dear hubby for one as a birthday gift. They range in price anywhere from one to eight hundred dollars. Many baby wearing mamma's collect them in different brands and styles for their colors, softness, and versatility. Because I could tie it anyway I wanted I could carry Finley when we were out and about and do a lot of things hands (and stress) free.
I've practiced a lot since getting it, but today was my first time doing a back carry with a babe this little and I loved it so much!! Sometimes it's hard to get things done around here with Ollie crying for attention from his bassinet or bouncy chair. When I would wear him on the front, I was still limited to how much I could do with a baby in the way. This morning I wrapped him onto my back and cleaned the mountain of dishes on my counter. While I moved around the kitchen he eventually fell asleep. I was happy and he was happy.
I have also found that when I wear him, carry him, and keep him close often in a day, he is more inclined to sleep longer stretches at night because he feels content and safe. I am really enjoying reading "The Five Love Languages of Children" and one of the quotes that stood out to me last night is "Physical touch is one of love's strongest voices." I totally believe this and I have come to find that there is no greater feeling than having my babes snuggled up close, resting their heads next to my heart.
Baby wearing is such a special thing and I am so grateful to have discovered it for these last two babies of mine.
"Food spoils, baby's don't.
Hold him. Wear him.
Breathe him in.
Keep him close.
It goes too fast."
1 comments:
YES YES YES!!!!! Having my babes nestled close is something I treasure and miss. My wraps and ring sling were hard to part with ❤️ That book is so great!!
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