It was a busy Saturday, but we managed to squeeze in a birthday celebration for our favorite guy! He always finds time for us somehow while juggling his own business and a busy church calling in the bishopric. He puts his best effort into everything that he does and gives selflessly of his time and energy day in and day out. He works hard and is a good provider. He's there for his kids and makes sure that I always know I'm loved. I am so proud of him and the man he has become! Happy birthday darling!
"JOY comes to us in ORDINARY moments. We risk missing out when we get too busy chasing down the extraordinary." ~Brene Brown
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Saturday, November 30, 2019
Friday, November 29, 2019
The Main Hub
The place where bellies are filled and love is felt as we gather with family, friends and extra kiddos that are hanging out.
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
His Own World
Today I caught Oliver, playing in his own little world. I love watching their imaginations grow and stretch. Listening to him play away with different voices and sound effects while I folded clothes was the best!
Monday, November 25, 2019
Roommates
In the dark of Winter, it is so nice when the sun graces us with its presence. As I carefully placed Sawyer in his crib at nap time today I couldn't help but snap a picture of his sunny snooze. A part of me wished that I could curl up next to him and enjoy the warmth of the light pouring through his bedroom window.
With Mr. Stannix out of town for a few days I ended up with two new roommates. When I went to bed tonight I discovered Camilla and Ollie snuggled up together in the middle of my big bed, dreaming away. I just smiled to myself and then tucked in beside them. When Mr. Stannix is away I plug in all of the nightlights because the house always seems extra scary without him around to keep me safe. I usually stay up as late as I can before I let myself be overcome with sleep. Tonight, I was secretly grateful for the extra company, even if they were already asleep.
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Sunday, November 24, 2019
Sawyer is ONE
November is a month of birthdays in the Stannix home. Sawyer turned ONE yesterday, but we waited until today to celebrate with family! It was nice and low key. He napped all afternoon while I iced cupcakes and made dinner. At a year old he is sleeping through the night, standing on his own, and full of giggles and wonder. He still wants to be snuggled to sleep most of the time, and sometimes he will push away and want to be put in his crib to fall asleep on his own. He's pretty much down to one nap a day, but still sometimes wants two. He is such a sweet boy and we are so glad he is a part of our family!
Tuesday, November 19, 2019
Warmth
As Winter is upon us I wanted to share a few thoughts on the importance of warmth. I've been doing a lot of reading recently about Waldorf education and the importance that Steiner placed on warmth. I find the whole thing fascinating and it really makes sense to me. Steiner believed that the amount of physical warmth a child received before age seven would positively impact not only their physical health, but also their capacity for emotional warmth as adults! Because children have a high metabolic rate, they rarely 'feel' cold, even though they are. When a child is sufficiently warm, their energy can be used to support the developing brain, heart, and other organs. Things like warm socks, wearing hats outside, drinking warm tea, eating warm soup, candle light, warm hugs etc. are all things that can positively affect a childs well-being. Keeping our children warm during these colder months is essential to their physical, emotional, and cognitive development.
"Warmth holds a very special place in the life of the developing
child, because it works throughout the entire spectrum of human
experience. There is physical warmth, emotional warmth -- the warmth of
love, of generosity, of true morality-- and all of these "warmths" pour
over and merge with each other. Perhaps most importantly warmth is the
essential ingredient in transformative work. Without warmth we cannot
change, and the life of the small child is consumed with processes of
growth and adaptation. Warmth helps us be healthy human beings on many
different levels."
~Adam Blanning M.D
Monday, November 18, 2019
The Laundry Pile
After all of the kids were finally asleep I made my way to my bedroom to tackle the laundry pile.
When I flicked on the light I discovered that a snoring Oliver had somehow found enough room to tuck himself in on the edge of the bed.
Sunday, November 17, 2019
Joseph: Seven Years
Joe turned SEVEN today! It really isn't fair that time goes by so fast. I wanted to take a few minutes and talk about how awesome Joe is. He is such a special kid and has a big personality. He is bright and loves to learn and be engaged in what's going on around him. If given the choice between a movie or playing outside, he will always choose outside. He has so much energy and I still can hardly keep up with him. On the soccer field he can go pretty much non-stop. He is very social and will talk to everyone he meets. Joe loves to make new friends. I went through to find a few old photos to add to this post and couldn't believe he was that small! I miss his little laugh and the way he used to grab my face and smooch me. He still has a pretty infectious laugh and is a good salesman when he wants to convince you of something. He loves hard and is fiercely loyal. He's grown into such a great boy and I am so proud of him and all that he strives to do each day. This kid is going to go places! Happy birthday Joe-Joe!!
Saturday, November 16, 2019
Mother
She wakes to the sound of a baby crying and tiptoes out of bed in the early hours of the morning like she's done almost every morning for many years before. She
soothes and rocks as the dawn breaks in the East, painting the sky in
the most magnificent colors. The babe nestles into her body for warmth,
finding the perfect place to rest his head and they both close their
eyes for just a moment. As the pleas for breakfast begin, she lets out a
gentle sigh and puts one weary foot in front of the other making her way to the kitchen. The children snuggle on the heat vent while they
wait to fill their tummies. When breakfast is served she lets their complaints go unnoticed,
encouraging them to eat and nourish their bodies. When they are filled,
they scurry from the table with brief expressions of gratitude. As the
day goes on her capacity is tested and her emotions are constantly
fluctuating. She experiences moments where she feels as though she might
drown, and others that lift her spirits so high she can hardly express
the joy she feels. After years of mothering she has learned to put up
guards so that the hurtful words she sometimes endures from the children
don't sting so badly. Her time at home allows her to craft, create,
explore nature and nurture tiny souls. The demands are great, but she is
up for the task. There is always someone who needs something and often
the days go by without a moment to herself. Once again she creates a
nourishing meal for her family. When they enjoy it she is filled with
satisfaction, and when they do not, she is filled with a sense of
failure. By days end she is worn
down. Her patience has been tested to its limits and dark circles have
formed under her eyes. She scrubs the dishes as loose hairs fall from
her ponytail, framing her weary smile. She tucks in each of the littles in her care with a long hug and a kiss on their head. She then moves about the house tidying and placing folded laundry into drawers. While most days she is left filled to the brim with joy,
gratitude and a sense of satisfaction, it is not always this way. The
work of a mother is relentless and tiring, but she does it without
complaint because she recognizes that the fruits of her labors will be
great one day as she watches those little souls grow and mature. She slips quietly into bed at days end, long after the rest of
the house has grown quiet. As she falls asleep she wonders if anyone notices
the hours she keeps and the service she selflessly renders on a daily
basis. When she was a child she never dreamed that motherhood would be so much work, but she also didn't realize the way she would grow and become who she was truly meant to be all along.
"You
will come to know that what appears today to be a sacrifice will prove
instead to be the greatest investment that you will ever make." ~Gordon
B. Hinckley
Friday, November 15, 2019
Christmas Shopping
Today the little boys and I ventured down to Calgary. Daddy had to drop the work car off and needed a ride back home in the evening, so I decided to take advantage of our time in the city and get in some much needed Christmas shopping. This meant that I had to be super sneaky as I bought stuff at the mall, ensuring that little eyes wouldn't notice. Oliver and Finley enjoyed being pushed around the mall in the stroller while I bought gifts and even our Christmas eve jammies (on clearance thankyouverymuch). It was fun to wander around the mall while Sawyer napped in the baby backpack and the boys ate cookies all day. Near the end of the day, everyone was getting tired and cranky. The Bass Pro shop served as an awesome distraction and we walked around checking out the stuffed animals and giant fish tanks and water falls. The boys loved it! Now I feel like we are almost ready for Christmas!
Thursday, November 14, 2019
Cozy Fires
Time flies by so fast! This afternoon Sawyer was looking extra grown up. We spent some time at the library after school and I loved watching Camilla read a book to her baby brother in the big library chair by the fire place. I love how close all of our littles are in age, but I also love all of the different age gaps we have with the older and younger siblings. Seeing everyone interact on different levels and at different times warms my heart.
Wednesday, November 13, 2019
Grown Up
Oliver is looking so grown up lately, I can hardly handle it! The things he says and does make him seem like such a big kid. He still enjoys a good afternoon nap though!
Tuesday, November 12, 2019
Monday, November 11, 2019
Remembrance Day
There was no school today. As I drove into town this morning I couldn't help but stop at the river to take in the scene. The trees were all frosted from the fog and the river was quietly flowing and moving.
It was a wonderful moment of peace and reflection for me and I felt so grateful for all of those who fought so that we could enjoy these freedoms.
Camilla snuggled Sawyer to sleep for me this afternoon, and then ended up falling asleep in the chair with him. Seeing the two of them together filled me with even more gratitude.
Saturday, November 9, 2019
Friday, November 8, 2019
Singing Solo
Camilla has really stepped out of her comfort zone this year and I am so so proud of her and the new things that she is trying! She convinced her best friend to join choir with her and while it's not the same as it was at Brentwood, she enjoys it! They worked on a duet for the Remembrance day assembly today, but at the last minute her friend had to go out of town and Camilla was left to sing a solo! While there was initially some terror (and maybe a few tears) she braved it and did amazing! Her friend had flowers delivered to the classroom to wish her luck. It was pretty great!
Boys, Boys, Boys
It was another beautiful Winter day at the acreage! We've had a few extra boys here this week and Camilla has been such a sport (being the only girl). I wrestled everyone into snow suits this afternoon so that we could get some fresh air! We had so much fun wandering around the acreage, being pulled on sleds, and (for some of them) eating snow. It took so long to get everyone dressed that I made them stay out for a while to make it worth the effort. They were troopers! The only one who wasn't too keen on being out in the snow was Sawyer. He will enjoy it more next year!
Wednesday, November 6, 2019
Safely Gathered
It's another snow day! We got a pretty big snow fall this week and the spruce trees look majestic with their boughs all covered in white. Even though I could drive them to school if I really wanted to, childhood is so short and I'm glad they are at home today to enjoy the snow. The big kids couldn't wait to get outside and play! Sawyer enjoyed watching them from the window. With all of the snow, we were sure grateful for the sunshine!
Tuesday, November 5, 2019
Snow Day
The big boys came running upstairs this morning to tell me that they were listening to their radio and had heard all of the buses in the school division were cancelled. I didn't believe them until I checked my phone and sure enough there was a message from our bus driver to let us know the bus wouldn't be running. It's a snow day and we aren't even a little bit sad about it!
After shoveling the heavy, wet snow off the walks, they were quickly covered in a fresh blanket of snow. It hasn't stopped snowing since last night before bed. The roads are awful and we are happy to stay home and play with our neighborhood friends and spend time together.
Monday, November 4, 2019
Dressed in White
The trees are dressed in white, the snow is softly falling and we are cozy and warm inside on this quiet November morning.
The view from my living room window is exquisite.
The company is pretty good too.
And we are all enjoying the rest.
Friday, November 1, 2019
Welcome November
Welcome November! As Winter storms blow and snow falls we are ready to snuggle up and wait for Spring. I'll be cherishing nap time with my baby before he turns ONE at the end of the month. The children will go to school each week and be fed nutritious dinners every night. New rhythms will be found and we will be clinging to the light until the days lengthen again.
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